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The Most Common Mistakes Made Whilst Dating

Relationships are a pivotal part of a majority of people’s lives, and it is not difficult to see why. Most people love the company of people they have a connection with, and as a result, a personal life coach in London will receive many questions about the right or wrong way to date.

As with any part of your social life, there isn’t any type of secret code or magic word that can unlock the secrets to dating aside from presenting who you are and seeing if there is a spark between you and your date. Anyone who claims otherwise is trying to sell you something.

However, here are some common mistakes people make when they are on a date with someone they are interested in, and how you can avoid them.

Putting On An Act

When on a date with someone, it does pay to show off your best side, but this should involve being the best version of yourself, and not pretending to be someone you are not.

In what may be a shocking fact to some, people do not like to feel manipulated, and even if your performance is sufficiently Oscar-worthy to work for a night, people tend to pick up on when people are not being honest with them, which can be a major turn-off.

Analysing Everything Too Much

When it comes to dating, and most social situations, it can sometimes be best to just trust your gut. This is not only because people tend to ascribe patterns and negative meanings to the most innocuous actions, but also because overanalysis can take you out of the moment.

Dating is about seeing if you and your date are right for each other, not to impress or win them over. This is not a job interview, nor a business deal you desperately need to close.

Planning Too Much Or Not Enough

It can be tempting to go into a date and simply wing it, but whilst that can work, it’s more likely to work by accident than by design. Planning too much can be restrictive, invasive and make your date feel uncomfortable.

The best way around this is to go for an in-between; have a loose idea of what you want to do but be willing to be flexible, be late and enjoy each other’s company in a range of different locales and scenarios. That is the best way to know if they are worth seeing again.

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